A Faith Journey│Arnold Sang-Woo Oh
There is a very strange picture of a very young me in a white gown looking very unhappy among thirty or so other unhappy looking children, also in white gowns. I remember asking my mom about the picture. She told me that it was a picture of my Catholic baptism! My mom, who was not a Christian, nor particularly a religious sort, decided to baptize me when I was four. She figured, “what harm could it do?” So I was given the Christian name Barnabas upon baptism, which in Korean is transliterated as bal-la-ba, which sounds a lot like Korean for “rubbing ointments”. My mom and I stopped attending Catholic mass as soon as I received the certificate of baptism which would now fend off, with questionable effectiveness, evil spirits.
It was not until I was 17 years old, after having moved to the United States, and having been arrested for robbing a store earlier that year, that I encountered something explicitly Christian again. I was tricked into going to a Young Life camp, an evangelistic ministry to high school students in Upstate New York, under the pretext that it was a summer camp with water skiing, parasailing, tubing, and the opportunity to meet girls. The very first night, the speaker told us that if we want peace in our hearts to accept Jesus. I did not know who Jesus was but I knew I needed peace from the turbulent experience of immigration and the chaos of my family life. I raised my hand and prayed the sinner’s prayer. Something happened to me at that moment. I cried like I had never cried before, but it was a different kind of crying than any previous experience. I wasn’t crying because I was sad, while I was; I wasn’t crying because I felt guilty, while I did; I wasn’t crying because I was filled with a new sense of joy, while I was; I was crying because the intense sense of alienation, experiences of racism, a deep sense of abandonment, the trauma of immigration, of being arrested and the deep fissures of existence were all somehow being brought forth into a cauldron of emotion that was stirring and pouring out of me through tears. When the process ended, I was at peace. I was at peace with my God, my neighbor and myself.
This experience brought me to a local Korean United Methodist church. I tried to share this new found joy in hope with as many people as possible. However, I soon found out through a series of events, including being expelled from high school and night school, that life with God is not life free from pain but life through pain. As I shared my struggles honestly with others I found that my pain and suffering did not have to end with me but could signify something more, that it could be missionally framed to speak of the crucified Jesus for others who also suffered. The pain in my life was being offered iconically to witness to the wounded Messiah. Through this process, I found myself starting and leading the largest ministry of its kind for Korean-American youth in the Southeastern United States, Living Water Ministry.
I threw myself into the ministry. I gave all that I knew of myself to all that I knew of God but I found out that being in ministry also did not preclude me from pain. After six years of leading Living Water, I had emotionally and spiritually burned out. I struggled through Bible college and seminary trying to hold onto the little foundation I had left and recover the hope I had previously had in Christ.
Through my attempt to understand what went wrong, I came to understand the forces that were corrosive to my faith and my life; racism, theological fundamentalism, individualism, nationalism, and so forth were not simply personal problems but were a part of much larger problems of the modern world. I tried to find a theological way out of the problems of modernity. Through my studies, travels, relationships and the process of reflecting upon my experiences, I came to conclude that my hope must come as Christ articulated through the other. The hope for Christianity rested with the growing churches in the global South.
After graduation from seminary, I found myself in Cambodia teaching and discipling future Cambodian pastors. I ate, slept, and shared my life with 56 Cambodian students in Phnom Penh for a year. What I experienced through my time in Cambodia, as well as my travels through other parts of Asia, was that missions still function very much within a colonial framework and structure. I came back to the States with a burning desire to re-imagine mission that escaped colonial violence. I believed that the future of the Church was at stake. At the same time, I was profoundly recommitted to my walk with Christ. However, two weeks after I’d come back to the States, my brother, after having struggling to find his place in the world and failing, took his own life.
It’s been a tough three years since that event. However, my sense of vocation has only grown broader and deeper through my struggle. In that time, I was nurtured particularly through the community which I now serve – Agape Korean United Methodist Church in Raleigh, NC. I have served as a youth/English ministry pastor for the past year and a half. During this period, I came to identity with and to understand the various struggles, joys and life of this exilic community of faith. They have reflected back to me my own struggles and hopes. My struggles with my own demons have, if not completely subsided, at least been put to rest by the joyful encounters with the members of my congregation each weekend. Gradually, I have been transformed by this encounter and vice versa. It has been my prayer that we would develop many full-time Christian workers. So far, we have six, and I am currently discipling and mentoring a young man who has come from Chicago to train with me to be a youth pastor. My life together with my congregation became the context from which I imagined the theological task of using mission to address the violence of modernity instead of perpetuating it. The pastoral questions that have risen from within my community have become the questions framing my academic reflection: How does theology narrate and provide guidance and hope for an immigrant community living in the American South. What does Jesus say about being an immigrant, legal or illegal? How do we, as Korean-Americans, theologically narrate the tragedy of the Virginia Tech shooting in relation to our community? As I sought to answer these questions, I realized that they are not only the questions for my ministry, but also the questions for my own faith journey. They were my questions. They were my brother’s questions. And, the answers to these questions may hold a key to resolving the broader problems of theology and mission trapped within modernity.
What my faith journey has taught me is that life free from pain is not an option for Christians. In fact, the moment that we try to gloss over it with our own strength is the moment when we fall deeply into the logic of the Fall. Jesus on the cross creates a new ontology in the world. The suffering bodies no longer signify alienation, rejection and ultimately, death. The marked body of Jesus becomes the new epistemological framework that translates other suffering bodies from being subjects of death into icons of Christ. And these subjects are not only located in the global South but also in exilic communities of Korean-Americans in the American South, blacks in inner cities, Latino/-as in borderlands, poor whites in Appalachia and all marginalized persons whose subjectivity has been misformed by the violence of modern structures. These bodies are material locus of God’s Spirit calling all of us back to our true identity in Christ and in Israel as non-national persons who find their identity only within the call and response of God. This is what I am called to expound upon and to teach. This is my mission. This is my call. This is my journey.